Habits - Put yourself in uncomfortable situations. Go up and talk to strangers

Put yourself in uncomfortable situations. Go up and talk to strangers.

But the the real key is to find a great partner. And that is going to be a function of liquidity. How many great partners, potential great partners you approach. And unfortunately, the far left, of which I’m a part, as counsel mandate, that if you start talking to a woman at work, and you express any sort of interest, it means you’re toxic. No it doesn’t. If you don’t know the difference between expressing interest and having coffee with someone and harassing them, you’ve got much bigger problems. A third of relationships begin at work. I’m not suggesting anyone should ever abuse their power. I’m not suggesting you shouldn’t be very careful that you’re ever leveraging power making anyone uncomfortable. But for God’s sakes, go up and talk to strangers. There’s nothing wrong with that. And if you approach a strange woman and try and express, get a conversation going, and she’s not interested, you’re both going to be fine, you’re both gonna be fine. And what I see as a generation of men who don’t take care of themselves physically, and become so isolated that the idea of talking to a strange woman is so alien and uncomfortable to them; they just rather stay home and do something else; and I don’t want to stereotype all introverts is is leading to bad places, that’s not true at all; but the majority of men you talk to, they want to be financially successful and they want to have a great partner at some point. And that is a function of your willingness to put yourself in uncomfortable situations.