Habits - Spend more time making the big decisions

Spend more time making the big decisions.

These decisions change based on various things like our age, where we are in life, etc.

For someone in their 20s, mostly, these are the decisions: where you live, who you are with, and what you are doing.

We spend so much time in our relationships. Relationships last anywhere from a few years to a lifetime. We spend very little time deciding which relationship to get into.

We spend so much time in our jobs. But we spend very little time deciding which job to get into.

Choosing what city to live in can almost completely determine the trajectories of our lives. But we spend so little time trying to figure out what city to live in.

If you are going to live in a city for 10 years, if you are going to be in a job for 5 years, if you are going to be in a relationship for a decade, we should be spending years deciding on these things.

These are highly dominating decisions. They matter so much. We literally have to free up our time to think about these things - because, the world will assault you with its own agendas. You have to say no to everything and free up your time to think about these things so that you can solve your important problems.